Showing posts with label Writer Grit. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Writer Grit. Show all posts

25 March

You Stopped Writing 'Cause It Got Too Hard - NOT an Option

 

If you’re reading my STOP Not Writing blog, 9 out of 10 of you are serious about your writing craft. For it to be a primary or secondary career, not a casual hobby you pen now and then.

So, for those 9, I present you with an awakening.

You can’t stop writing when it gets difficult. It’s when it gets difficult you MUST write.

Yep. I know that feeling…

You’ve come to the point in your manuscript where you’re stuck or you’ve run out of ideas or the character isn’t acting, saying genuine things, or you think your story sucks, etc., etc., etc.

STOP thinking on the negative, is your first task. Go make a drink, sit back, breathe, and chill. You’re getting yourself all worked up for nothing. Remember: writing is NOT a race. It is an art form which needs time and patience. The rest of the world may be going 0 to 60 is a split second. Artists must throw the middle finger up at that populist swill and take the time that is needed to craft a great work of art.

Artists do NOT march to the world’s beat, peeps. Artists CREATE the beat.

Get a backbone and remember that.

If the non-artists in your world gripe about your process, smile, nod, and walk away. They’ll have been born, live, and die, never knowing the artist’s way.

Now, START thinking on the positives. The ways in which you can get this manuscript back on the right track and your fingers pounding the keys.

Hint: When faced with a literary wall, real or imagined, return to your plotline. And yes, this applies to Pantsers, too. Every writer requires a generalized plotline to ensure they don’t write themselves into corners or dive-bomb off cliffs. You Pantser freaks, don’t lecture me about being a free spirit. You can type with abandon, but you need to know the road you’re typing on. So, if that means you’ve not created a generalized plotline, DO IT NOW. I’ll wait. I need a second coffee, anyway.

Listen, you’re already writing paralyzed, so grab some cheap recipe cards and plot out your novel. One scene per card. Obviously not writing, you have nothing better to do.

For those who were smart and created your plotline before you began, it’s time to return to it. Read over each scene card, in linear order. Re-familiarize yourself with your own tale.

No, I don’t care if you are missing scenes. All writers will have scene black holes when they start a new book. (All except for Ian Flemming with his 007 Bond books he crafted in his mind as he sunbathed on a delicious beach in Jamaica. Don’t look at me now. I’m green with feral envy). This exercise is to get your mind’s eye to envision the story line as it is now, in its entirety, so you can re-envision the story arc — the beginning, middle, end, and denouement.

If you’re stuck writing, chances are your mind’s eye has lost the vision. You need to reinstall it into your brain. Think of this as a CPU reboot or some such techno exercise I probably abhor. You need to SEE where you are and where you’re going to BE there, right?

As you read the scene cards over, I’ll bet dollars to donuts you’ll have an ah-ha! moment where the missing piece clicks into place, where you see how you veered off track. If this doesn’t occur, get a friend to read your scene cards and your draft. They’ll surely see your gaffe for you. Buy them a cocktail as thanks, those evil-eyed beta friends.

And once you see where you went off track, you can return to that page, delete the erred section(s), and type on. I’ll also bet now your fingers won’t be able to keep up with your mind’s eye, knowing what is supposed to happen next, and to whom!

So, when you fear the keyboard, when you’d rather have bamboo shoots shoved under your fingernails than write, the above is surely happening to you. Follow the steps I’ve outlined, and you’ll surely be back on your way.

If writing is your life’s métier, stopping is NOT an option. There’s always a way. It’s in the artist’s backbone — their grit, determination, and focus through the worst of times — that will, like sand working inside a seashell, create a lustrous pearl.

Life Fact: Nothing great comes easy. It never will. Accept it and write on.

08 February

Grow Your Writer Grit...

 

Remember back…

When your parents made you do some back-breaking chore that was dirty and awful and boring, and you felt was a complete waste of time, but to get your allowance, you kept that verbal goodie to yourself, and did it anyway?

Remember less far back…

When a university prof made you do a pathetically meaningless assignment, and made it into a compulsory group project (ugh), and you faked smiled at your team, dug in, became the group leader, assigned chores, to get that pissy project done and dusted in lightning speed?

Remember yesterday…

When you woke up, feeling like crap — a Covid side contagion more virulent these days than the coronavirus itself — and you couldn’t even force yourself to look at your laptop, much less write on that endless book of yours?

So, today, I ask…

What happened to your Grin & Bare It Grit?

  • You had it when you were 8.
  • You had it when you were 18.
  • Where did you put it at 28, 38, 48, and 58?

I hate to dent the romantic notion newbie writers have about full time writing… (but I will, you know I will…) a writing career has more to do with digging ditches in a cold rain than it has to do with sun-kissed beaches and smoking jackets worn by a crackling fire.

The digging is daily. The mind exhaustion is daily.

It’s mind-breaking, clumsy work, whereby you spill truckloads of prosaic crap onto the page to discover a few good gems.

And even when you finish a work, you’re never finished. The world always demands the next book from you that you haven’t even started yet.

And accolades maybe years in the achieving, kind of like when Tom Hanks was forced to do Faberge shampoo commercials before being a superstar. And the odds of you and your work going from Tom Hanks Zero to Zenith aren’t even looking that good.

As a kid, you knew hard work had its own reward. By age 8, you knew patience was indeed a virtue.

So, I ask you…

Where is your growing grit around being a writer?

You know writing is beyond hard.

You know you’ll screw up, learn, grow, and screw up some more.

But is there anything more satisfying than to have weathered that literary storm, and come out the other end better than whole?

If you answer, "No, there isn’t," then you need to find a way to grow that grit you’ve had in you since you weeded your mom’s garden, and those bloody dandelions came back the next day, twice as big.

Some things in life are just plain back-breaking, and they get you frustrated, and they put you down in the muck and mire, fighting tooth and nail to make prosaic goo read great.

But…

What would you do, that would satisfy you more, if not write? All that avoiding activity you're doing right now is making you feel worse. How 'bout trying to write, and feel better?

HOMEWORK: Go have a shower. Put on some fightin’ clothes. Brew a pot of strong tea or coffee. Plunk yourself down at your desk, INHALE DEEPLY, and get in that ring, ready to word rumble! And do all this NOW. No. not tomorrow. NOW.

Nobody, especially me, ever said being a writer would be a trip. And if it were, you’d end up being in the Slow Lane on the Scenic Tour from Hell for the foreseeable future. It’s just part and parcel of the fight to be a great artist. There’s your cup of reality. Go sup.

  • Weeding the lawn.
  • Digging a ditch.
  • Washing dishes by hand ‘cause the dishwasher broke.
  • Mopping floors.
  • Washing walls.
  • Scrubbing toilets.
  • Writing your book

Right? Am I right?

You know I'm right.


 This is Gary Grit. he has it goin' on...